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		<title>New Year&#8217;s with the Nenets of the Russian Arctic</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My former classmate Alexey and his friend By Nelya Rakhimova There are places on the Earth where winter lasts almost 9 months. Yar-Sale is one of them. Located above the Arctic Circle, it is a small town with population about 5,000 people. It’s the administrative center of Yamal Region, which occupies the whole Yamal Peninsula. [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">By Nelya Rakhimova</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">There are places on the Earth where winter lasts almost 9 months. Yar-Sale is one of them. Located above the Arctic Circle, it is a small town with population about 5,000 people. It’s the administrative center of Yamal Region, which occupies the whole Yamal Peninsula. It was founded in 1927 by Soviets. In 1932 it became the administrative center in order to the Nenets, nomads who live there. In the Nenets language, Yar-Sale means &#8220;Sandy Point&#8221; as it is located on a sand island surrounded by endless marshy tundra.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">My parents moved to Yar-Sale for several years to earn more money. As they worked in the educational sphere, they couldn’t make much money in the south. Because there is need of education for local nomads, you can easily get good bonuses to your usual salary because of the “hardship” status of the living in the area. I visited my parents for New Year’s.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Visiting the northern nomads—the Nenets Nation—became the best New Year’s present. It was an incredible experience also because one of my classmates, Alexey Serotetto is one of them. He was glad to show me around and to introduce me the wild northern life of his nation.</span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #000000;">Getting to Yar-Sale<strong></strong></span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">First of all, it is necessary to say that it is one the places in Russia where it is really hard to get to. I flew from Tyumen to Salehard. Then you have two options to get to Yar-Sale: helicopter or jeep with huge wheels. During the summer you cannot drive cars between towns because there are no roads, only helicopters and boats can be used.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">During the winter everything is frozen and only experienced drivers can find the right way. They prefer to drive when it dark because apparently they can see the way better than in daylight. However, it is not a problem in this region, because sunlight appears here only for two to three hours per day in winter. Helicopter pilots, in contrast, prefer to fly during this short sunny time.<strong></strong></span></p>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">People waiting for the helicopter landing</span></dd>
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</strong><span style="color: #000000;">I tried both means of transportation. As I landed quite late and I did not want to stay in Salehard for a night, I took an eight-hour jeep ride. Even though it is just 190 km (about 120 miles) it takes a lot of time to cross tundra. There is no road, snow covers traces of cars immediately and it is really easy to get lost. There is one stop on the way—the small town Aksarka—which is a good way to know you’re on the right path.</span></p>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">Aksarka &#8211; view from helicopter</span></dd>
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<h2><strong><br />
</strong>Nomads in Modern Life</h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The main purpose of the settlement is to provide local people with education and medicine. Every fall, children are collected by helicopter from the nomad’s camp and are brought here. They stay in a special school for nine months and then go back to their parents’ camps. Usually immigrants work in these organizations; most of the Nenets keep a traditional way of life.  They have a lot of subsidies as they are indigenous peoples. As a result they can get additional equipment to make life a bit more comfortable.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Only some of them try to get political power and defend their rights at the local level. They have apartments and from first glance have the same living conditions as Russian people. However, I realized that it is not really true when I visited my classmate in Yar-Sale. His apartment was organized as a traditional tent with lots of deerskins everywhere. They treated me with raw cut fish and instead of soup they offered me a bowl with reindeer’s blood. I liked it, by the way.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Some Nenets fit into the modern era very well, and some of them can get in real trouble. For example, the biggest problem is alcohol. The Nenets have not adapted to it as we have and it’s really easy for them to become dependent on alcoholic.<strong></strong></span></p>
<h2>Day in the Tundra</h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Nenets people are really hospitable and they really like to show how they live, entertain and treat their guests. I was told that my classmate’s family participated in a documentary series of BBC ‘Tribe’ when a BBC crew spent about one month with them to make an</span> <span style="color: #0000ff;"><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/tribe/tribes/nenets/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;">episode about their tribe</span></a></span>. <span style="color: #000000;"> I had only one day to experience the freezing temperatures and their lifestyle was so unusual for me.<strong></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">My classmate invited me to visit his relatives that were in 20 km from the town at that time. We met in the morning, while it was still dark. They gave me natural clothes to be comfortable during the trip. They are made from reindeer skins and are really warm and comfortable. The Nenets usually travel by snowmobile from the town to their camps. Camps are setup by families that overtake the reindeer in order provide them with the possibility to find food. As they eat reindeer moss, they need to move all the time. So sometimes people come and stay next to the town to get provisions and see relatives who have changed from the traditional lifestyle.<strong></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">It took about one hour to get ready and another to get to the camp. We wanted to arrive there when it wasn’t dark so we didn’t have much time. It was amazing for me how the Nenets can find the right direction in the tundra. It is a completely white plain and monotonous landscape. Only sometimes there are some hills and small trees. When we were closer, we met the head of the family and he suggested we take a sled ride.</span><strong></strong></p>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">The Nenets</span></dd>
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<h2>Sled Ride</h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The people that we visited didn’t have many reindeer. There were only about 300—they told us that is not a lot. They say that each of them has a special name and they remember each of them. Reindeer here are considered a holy animal for people. Life without them in such a severe climate is not possible; they provide food, clothing, and transportation.</span></p>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">Alexey is feeding the reindeer with pieces of bread</span></dd>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong></strong><span style="color: #000000;">There was only one traditional tent</span> (<span style="color: #0000ff;"><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/tribe/tribes/nenets/images/gallery/chum.jpg" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;">chum</span></a></span>)<span style="color: #000000;"> where people usually stay. Women are responsible for the transporting the tent, as well as setting it up, and what goes on inide. Usually there is an iron stove inside which helps to keep it warm.</span></p>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">Reindeer herd</span></dd>
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<dt class="wp-caption-dt"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/The-Nenets-chum.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-3262  " title="The Nenets chum" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/The-Nenets-chum.jpg" alt="" width="540" height="329" /></a></dt>
<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">The Chum</span></dd>
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<h2>The Chum<strong></strong></h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Inside there a lot of deerskins that are used as carpets and sleeping bags. The woman, host of the chum, treated us with different kinds of raw frozen fish and some vodka. As all Nenets people who complete school can speak Russian, we had nice conversation about their life and how they migrate from the north to the south during the winter and back during the summer. Toilets are situated away from the chums and separated into male and female areas. Their clothes are made in a special way to make it as comfortable as possible. However, I was told that when there is a snowstorm they use a robe to go outside because sometimes people can get lost. They cannot find their way back even if they go only a few meters away from the tent.  Also the Nenets will often take a stick with them to the toilet to fend off any overly-friendly reindeer that are in search of salty fluids.</span><strong></strong></p>
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<dt class="wp-caption-dt"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/The-Nenets-hostess-is-cutting-frozen-fish-in-front-of-Christmas-tree.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-3263 " title="Nenets fish Christmas tree" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/The-Nenets-hostess-is-cutting-frozen-fish-in-front-of-Christmas-tree.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="600" /></a></dt>
<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">The hostess is cutting frozen fish in front of Christmas tree.</span></dd>
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</strong><span style="color: #000000;">In general, I was impressed with Nenets’ way of thinking. In the beginning I thought that I am going to meet uneducated people with who I do not have anything to talk about. However, I found out that they are incredible people who live in harmony with nature and who are completely happy to be there in such a cold and severe place. They told me how it is hard for them to live in small apartments, and how they miss the unlimited dark tundra, snow, frost, raw fish and meat.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">We came back when it was completely dark. I did not want to give back such warm and comfortable clothes because I was going to stay in Yar-Sale for couple days more, but I did.  I was really happy that I had opportunity to understand these people who live in such a severe climate. It seems so crazy for us, people who are used to hot water from the tap and a heating system during the coldest days.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I understood once again that people can get used to everything and that happiness depends only on our perception of situations and that the endless white plain is one of the most beautiful landscapes that I have ever seen.<strong></strong></span></p>
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<dt class="wp-caption-dt"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Sunset-on-the-Russian-tundra.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-3261  " title="Sunset on the Russian tundra" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Sunset-on-the-Russian-tundra.jpg" alt="" width="540" height="360" /></a></dt>
<dd class="wp-caption-dd"><span style="color: #000000;">Sunset under the Russian tundra</span></dd>
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</strong>If you go</h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">If you want to visit Yar-Sale, you need to have a special permission because this area is considered a pre-border area. I would suggest finding people who can host you there beforehand.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><em><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_3789.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2308" title="nelya rakhimova" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_3789-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="108" height="108" /></a>Nelya Rakhimova grew up in the town of Tobolsk, Russia, and moved to Tyumen when she was 15. She has spent the last few years traveling and studying in various countries and has recently completed her Master’s degree in the United States on a Fulbright Scholarship. This is her second feature for GoMad Nomad.</em></span></p>
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		<title>Interview with an International Surfer</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Meet Jonas Studer, a primary school teacher from the small town of Brugg, Switzerland. For the last decade he has been crossing the world in search of the biggest, badest, and most exotic waves. It wasn’t until after years of traveling to surf that he began to “see things” other than waves. I caught up [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Meet Jonas Studer</strong>, a primary school teacher from the small town of Brugg, Switzerland. For the last decade he has been crossing the world in search of the biggest, badest, and most exotic waves. It wasn’t until after years of traveling to surf that he began to “see things” other than waves. I caught up with him for an interview on a non-surfing leg of a trip to Malaysian Borneo.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: I’ve heard of Swiss hikers, mountaineers, ice-climbers…but surfers? No. How does a person from a mountainous land-locked country develop a life-long obsession with surfing?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">JS: The first time I saw a proper wave was in my friend’s brother’s bedroom. We were young. It was a poster of Hawaii’s Back Door. We were sneaking into to his room to look for any evidence of girls that we could find. Instead of girls, we found surfing.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">When I got a little older, I learned to surf “static” waves in rivers. At 14, we had raised money for a school trip to Barcelona. Due to a measles outbreak, the trip got cancelled. But some of us wanted to salvage our summer holiday. One of our classmate’s fathers invited us to his beach house in Brittany, France. We ended up using the money we raised for surfing lessons.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: Where are some of the destinations you’ve traveled to surf?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">JS: In South America I surfed on practically every beach from Ecuador down to Santiago, Chile. In Central America I hit the waves in Nicaragua, Costa Rica, and Panama. Also, Indonesia, Australia (including Tasmania), New Zealand, and Hawaii. Closer to home, I’ve surfed in France, Portugal, the UK, Italy, and Morocco. And there’s one more place…but…I can’t tell you. It’s a secret.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: The question I always ask? Does your passion drive you to travel, or is traveling the driving force? In other words, do you travel to surf or surf to travel?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"> JS: I definitely travel to surf. But traveling is a nice “side effect”. I thank my girlfriend Camilla for helping me to begin to see things when I travel. In fact, my first trip not to surf was to Bolivia and it was an incredible experience.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/jonas-interview.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-3049" title="jonas interview" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/jonas-interview-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: Do you always travel with your surf board? How do you transport it?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">JS: The surf board is a big pain to transport. My biggest board is 6 ft. 4 in. Some airlines charge extra for surfboards. British Airways does not allow them. You can find information like that on surfline.com.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: Has surfing brought you closer to locals or the local culture of the place you were traveling?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">JS: For surfing, many times you have to trek to remote places. This has meant that I come in contact with a lot of locals and consequently have spent a lot of time hanging out with them. In Morocco, I took a car about two or three hours south of the touristy area to a predominately Berber region.</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: How do you compare surfing in surfing cultures, say in Hawaii or Australia versus non-surfing cultures like Indonesia?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">JS: In countries with a large percentage of surfers, everything seems to revolve around surfing, so much so, that it can be annoying. It attracts not only considerate surfers, but also the arrogant and selfish crowd.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In a place like Indonesia, you meet independent travelers that have come to surf and they tend to be much more open minded.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/jonas-studer-surfing.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-3050" title="jonas studer surfing" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/jonas-studer-surfing-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN: Where are some surf destinations that are at the top of your list for the future? How about your favorite places to revisit?</strong></span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">JS: Indonesia is definitely on my list to revisit as is South America, predominately because of the combination of the waves and the culture.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I’d love to surf in Mozambique and Ireland at some point in the future.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #000000;">GN: Thanks so much for the interview!  Keep in touch during your future surfing adventures!</span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Interview compiled by Stephen Bugno</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Stephen Bugno I am definitely not a mall person. You might even be able to classify me as a mall hater. Here are five reasons I didn’t fight malls when I visited Singapore. 5) A National Obsession To understand Singapore without eating at or entering a mall is like trying to understand Ireland without [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am definitely not a mall person. You might even be able to classify me as a mall hater. Here are five reasons I didn’t fight malls when I visited Singapore.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">5) A National Obsession</span></p>
<p><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-sale.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2455" title="singapore mall sale" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-sale-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">To understand Singapore without eating at or entering a mall is like trying to understand Ireland without entering a pub. Singaporeans are obsessed with shopping. The temples they’ve built to worship this infatuation with consumerism, are malls. They are big, they are beautiful, and they are here to stay. My conclusion: understanding malls equals understanding Singaporean society.</span></p>
<h2>4) Nice to Look at</h2>
<p><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-fountain.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2454" title="singapore mall fountain" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-fountain-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">These are some of the nicest, most well-designed buildings I’ve seen. I spent much of my time in Singapore just walking through the malls admiring the interior design, the grand open spaces, the escalators. Not to mention all the beautiful people. Singaporeans look good! In fact, they are the best dressed people I have ever seen. Don’t get me wrong, Londoners and New Yorkers are dressed well, but in those cities there’s at least one person poorly dressed for each one that is well dressed. In Singapore, it’s just beautiful person after beautiful person. Even if they’re not good looking, they still look good.</span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #000000;">3) I didn’t ask to visit this mall</span></h2>
<p><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapre-mall-escalator.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2458" title="singapre mall escalator" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapre-mall-escalator-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">How did I end up in a mall? Get used to it, malls are everywhere in Singapore. And they’re almost impossible to avoid. If you exit the MRT (mass rapid transit), you may end up inside a mall. It’s nearly impossible to escape. I tried once for 20 minutes to get to street level and failed. Luckily there are good information desks helping you plot your way out. So you may not have a choice about visiting malls while in the city. Accept the mall. Be one with commercialism. Smile, you love shopping.</span></p>
<h2>2) It’s freeeezing in here</h2>
<div id="attachment_2452" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 425px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-design.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2452  " title="singapore mall design" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-design-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="415" height="553" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A mall in Singapore.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Singapore is hot. Walking around the city, you’ll think it’s the hottest, most humid place you’ve ever been. Enter shopping malls. They are cold, very cold. And to most people this feels good. Feeling good goes hand in hand with spending a lot of money. There you have the secret to happiness in Singapore. Unfortunately, to the weak (myself included), this shuffling into the ice cold mall and out into the hot street can cause headaches. Why not stay inside the mall all day?</span></p>
<h2>1) 1 +1 = 3</h2>
<p><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-food-court.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2453" title="singapore mall food court" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-food-court-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Shopping malls combine shopping with Singaporean’s second obsession: eating. This city is both eater’s and shopper’s paradise. Malls have food courts. These are not the disgusting and dirty food courts that you are used to back home. This is good food. And lots of it. A diverse range of independent stalls offer an array of sophisticated food choices at reasonable prices. Char kway teow (fried broad noodles) with cockles, lemon pepper beef rice, fish ball and wan tan soup, chicken rice, turnip and mushroom dumplings, kaya (coconut jam) toast and coffee,  just to name a few that I tried. The mall food court is the place to get good food at good prices. If you think Singaporeans have fashion sense, they have even better food sense.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2456" title="singapore mall" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/singapore-mall-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">There you have it. Malls rule Singapore. The next time you’re here, just try to avoid malls. I dare you.</span></p>
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		<title>Interview with a Female Hitchhiker</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Contributing writer Sally Kay has been traveling through South America for 17 months, from Ushuaia, the southernmost tip of Argentina, all the way to Cartagena in the north of Colombia. She has covered many of those miles by hitchhiking.  I was about to meet her in Colombia but she got temporarily held up in Ecuador after [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='wpfblike' style='height: 40px;'><fb:like href='http://gomadnomad.com/2011/03/25/interview-with-a-female-hitchhiker/' layout='default' show_faces='true' width='400' action='like' colorscheme='light' send='false' /></div><p><span style="color: #000000;">Contributing writer Sally Kay has been traveling through South America for 17 months, from Ushuaia, the southernmost tip of Argentina, all the way to Cartagena in the north of </span><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/12/03/nine-reasons-to-visit-colombia-now/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Colombia</span></a><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>. </strong> She has covered many of those miles by hitchhiking.  I was about to meet her in Colombia but she got temporarily held up in Ecuador after being robbed. I was intrigued by her hitchhiking, especially alone as a woman, and I wanted to bring her story to our readers. So she answered some of my questions via email.</span></p>
<div id="attachment_2283" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Over-Stgo-4.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2283  " title="sally kay santiago" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Over-Stgo-4-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sally Kay above Santiago, Chile</p></div>
<h3>GN: First, the stats: How many times, roughly, have you hitched? How many countries? What was your longest ride?</h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally</strong><em>: </em>I’ve probably hitched about 100 times, give or take, in seven countries.  My longest ride was with a friend across Argentina from Rosario, in the east almost to Salta in the west. When the truck driver stopped for the night we unrolled our sleeping bags and slept beside the semi.</span></p>
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<h3><span style="font-size: 15px;">GN: How many years have you been traveling like this? When was your first hitch?</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally:</strong> I am relatively new to hitching.  My first ride was in 2009, but I was hooked from the start.</span></p>
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<h3><strong>GN:</strong> The question most people want to know: Are you ever scared hitching as a female? Do you usually hitch with a male companion or another female? Is it safe?</h3>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;"><strong>Sally</strong>: I have been in slightly uncomfortable or awkward situations, but nothing scary.  Like anything else, I think it’s important to be safe about it. I have hitched alone and with another person without problems, but it really is safer to have a partner while hitchhiking.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I don’t think it’s unsafe for a woman to hitchhike alone during the daytime (depending on the place) and by no means would I advise against it, but a woman and a man together is definitely the best combination.  Whether or not you are actually a couple doesn’t matter, it gives that impression and discourages awkward overtures.</span></p>
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<h3><strong>GN:</strong> I am biased about hitching in my home country, the U.S., because I think can be more dangerous than other places. Have you ever hitched in the States?</h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally:</strong> I think that it is more dangerous in the States.  I have thought about it, but the closest I have gotten to hitching in the States is Craigslist rideshares. The main reason I say this, is that while people will tell you hitching is dangerous all over the world, in South America people who do hitch, recommend it. In the States, hitchhikers have warned me that it is too dangerous for a girl alone.  There is also the added problem that hitching is illegal in many states and police will often fine hitchhikers.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Rosario.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2282" title="sally kay" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Rosario-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a></p>
<h3><strong>GN:</strong> What was your easiest country for getting rides? Your most difficult?</h3>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; font-weight: normal; color: #000000;"><strong>Sally:</strong> Chile was probably the easiest country to get a ride in. The roads are wonderful, many people have cars, and everyone seems willing to give hitchhikers a ride. I hitched from La Serena on the west coast to Mendoza, Argentina in a day, getting one ride after another.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Colombia was by far the most difficult country to get a ride in. Though Colombians are wonderful people there is still a fear of kidnappings and guerillas. The government even has run announcements warning drivers not to pick up hitchhikers. This sadly makes hitching in Colombia almost impossible.</span></p>
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<h3><strong>GN:</strong> Any stories of over-the-top hospitality?</h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally:</strong> That’s part of why I love hitchhiking.  It’s pretty standard for truck drivers to buy hitchhikers meals when they stop to eat, which is always nice.  I have had truckers offer to pay for bus tickets when we weren’t headed to the same place. I have had truckers invite myself and a hitching partner sailing with them.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I think probably my favorite over-the-top hospitality experience was traveling with a friend.  A truck driver called ahead to the city we were visiting, found us a hotel room, and paid for our accommodation.</span></p>
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<h3><strong>GN:</strong> What has been the most frightening part of hitching; when were you worried the most?</h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally:</strong> I have been pretty lucky and haven’t had any really frightening experiences.  Once I hitched with a trucker, it was pretty far, but I thought we would make it to our destination before nightfall.  Much to my surprise he pulled over and stopped for the night and ended up making advances on me.  It was extremely uncomfortable but I told him quite firmly that I wanted no part of that and wanted out of his truck.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">As soon as he realized I was serious about it, he apologized profusely and was extremely embarrassed, but it could have gone quite differently.  After that, I never hitched alone after dark or on extended trips where there was any possibility the driver would stop for the night.</span></p>
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<h3><strong>GN:</strong> Why Hitch? Are you trying to save money or just after some adventure?</h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally</strong>: Hitching is more than just a way to save money.  It is a great way to meet some extremely interesting people you wouldn’t otherwise encounter, see a different side of countries, and some amazing nature along the roads.  It is also wonderful to see how kind so many people are, hear their stories, and get an entirely different perspective on life.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I hitchhiked with one miner who had grown up in a family so poor the nine children had to share four pairs of shoes when they went to school.  Half the children had morning classes and would bring the shoes back for the other children to wear in the afternoon.  Not only did the miner have fascinating stories, but he took me and my travel partner to the mine he worked at and let us stay in this amazing house made completely out of salt, with salt tables and benches!</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Salt-mine.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2281" title="Salt mine" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Salt-mine.jpg" alt="" width="544" height="408" /></a></p>
<h3><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>GN:</strong> Any advice to anyone out there, especially for females who are looking to travel by thumb?</span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sally:</strong><em> </em>There are a million ways to hitchhike, but I’d be happy to give a little advice to help get some new hitchhikers started.</span></p>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Do not</strong> get into a truck if you get a bad feeling about the driver or the vehicle.</span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">Bring a map with you. That way you will be able to see the best route to where you want to go.</span></li>
</ul>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">Starting early is another good idea, especially for women, but for men as well. Drivers rarely pick up hitchers after dark, and with good reason. You and the driver want to be able to see one another.</span></li>
</ul>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">Smile, do a dance, look the driver in the eyes, and make yourself stand out.  Drivers want to pick up hitchhikers who will be good company and pass the time. </span></li>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><em>Sally has written <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/01/21/10-things-she-should-know-before-couchsurfing-tips-for-women/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Ten Things she should know before couchsurfing: Tips for Women</span></a> and <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/10/20/a-hitchhikers-guide-to-south-america/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">A Hitchhiker’s Guide to South America</span></a> for GoMad Nomad. She blogs at: <a href="http://adventuressetravels.wordpress.com/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Adventuresse Travels</span></a> </em></span></p>
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		<title>To Be A Gringa: Part Two</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[(continued from: To Be a Gringa: Part One) The Ex-Pat Community of Cajamarca, Peru &#160; Amy and her husband Eric arrived to Cajamarca on a sunny Thursday morning.  A driver picked them up from the airport and drove them and their two dogs to their furnished home.  After a quick nap, they went and met [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='wpfblike' style='height: 40px;'><fb:like href='http://gomadnomad.com/2011/03/24/to-be-a-gringa-part-two-cajamarca-peru/' layout='default' show_faces='true' width='400' action='like' colorscheme='light' send='false' /></div><div><span style="color: #000000;">(continued from: </span><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/03/02/to-be-a-gringa-part-one/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">To Be a Gringa: Part One</span></a><span style="color: #000000;">)</span></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #000000;">The Ex-Pat Community of Cajamarca, Peru</span></h2>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Amy and her husband Eric arrived to Cajamarca on a sunny Thursday morning.  A driver picked them up from the airport and drove them and their two dogs to their furnished home.  After a quick nap, they went and met with a human resources representative from Eric’s company.  Here they were given information about Cajamarca, and oriented to their phone, internet, and cable plans (which had been set up for them prior to their arrival).  When they got back home they ate some of the food that their home had come furnished with.  Over the next few days, while Eric settled into his work schedule, Amy was bombarded with invitations from other ex-pats.  They offered to show her around town, take her grocery shopping, and help her find a maid.  They were eager for her to get settled so they could begin to invite her to play tennis, join them for tea or cocktails, weekly card games and various other social events. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</p>
<div id="attachment_2265" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_7051.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2265  " title="Might as well" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_7051-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Watching the Carnaval parade with the Gringos.  We made sure to get front row seats and matching &quot;Cajamarca Carnaval&quot; baseball hats.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Through the ex-pat network, Amy soon met Katie, one of the other young wives, who had arrived four months prior.  Although Amy was from the United States, and Katie was from New Zealand, the two twenty-somethings found they had a lot in common.  Both formerly full-time working women who left their careers behind to pursue their husbands’ work in </span><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/29/why-i-love-cajamarca/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Cajamarca, Peru </span></a><span style="color: #000000;">were all of a sudden with plenty of free time.  They began going on daily walks with Amy’s dogs to explore the area, politely greeting passers by who called out “gringita!” </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">When Charlie and I first </span><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/01/25/my-life-in-banos-del-inca-cajamarca-peru/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">moved to Banos del Inca</span></a><span style="color: #000000;">, I stared as much as the Peruvians when I saw a gringo.  I would strain to hear whether they were speaking English.  I would rush home and tell Charlie, “I saw a blonde woman at the store today.  She was pregnant.  I couldn’t see what she bought but I saw her pay and it was under twenty Soles.”  A week later, “A gringo drove by me in a car today.  He had blonde curly hair and glasses.  He was driving a car so he must live here.”  Charlie continued to assure me that there were lots of ex patriots living here who worked in the mines, but aside from a rare spotting every other week, the only gringo I ever saw was Charlie himself. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Then we met our neighbors.  Lucia, from Chile, works at Yanacocha and lives with her boyfriend Nicoli, from Canada.  There’s Niki from California, who’s here to teach at the international school, her boyfriend Jason from New York, who’s been living here for years working in international development; Josh, the chiropractor also from the States and Gemma from Australia (the pregnant lady I saw) who is raising her newborn baby and 3 other children with her husband who works for Yanacocha.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000000;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_2264" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_7010.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2264  " title="Tipsy Train" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_7010-1024x767.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="414" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I invited both my gringo friends and Peruvian friends to a pre-carnaval party at our house.  Within an hour everyone was dancing together, within two we had a wild water fight with the neighbors.</p></div>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Charlie was right (don’t tell him I said that).  There are plenty of ex-pats living here in Cajamarca.  In fact, if you moved here and wanted to have lots of gringo friends, and little interaction with Peruvians other than your maids and service people, it would be easy.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I met Katie at a dinner party and was delighted with the invitation to go walking with her and Amy.  I learned from them about the ex-pat presence that does indeed exist in Cajamarca.  I also found out how easy (comparatively) it had been for them to adjust to life here with the support of human resources and a slew of ex-pat housewives who had lots of time to help out. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Charlie was thrilled when we were invited to a Super-bowl party at Amy’s house.  He helped me prepare the seven layer dip and practically dragged me out the door to make it in time for the first kick (or whatever you call it).  We arrived to a house filled with at least twenty gringos speaking English.  “I feel like I’m in the United States” I whispered to Charlie as we looked around dumbfounded at the big screen TV and table of American food.  Despite </span><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/02/05/death-in-the-chicken-coop/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">carrying live chickens</span></a><span style="color: #000000;"> home on the combi, watching cars swerve through traffic of cows and sheep, and campesino women walking down the street breast feeding openly, this was perhaps the most inconceivable spectacle I had seen since moving to Cajamarca.  We weren’t sure how to greet people.  We debated as to whether to revert to our American ways by shaking hands or follow the Peruvian standard of greeting acquaintances with a kiss.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2277" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_7230.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2277  " title="IMG_7230" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_7230-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">At a wedding this past weekend with some good friends from Lima and Cajamarca.</p></div>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Katie, Amy and I go walking with our dogs three to four mornings a week.  We occasionally meet for lunch, or invite our husbands along for a cocktail hour or poker night.  Amy, who is also training for a marathon has become my running partner.  I must say, having friends from a similar cultural background to me who are in an equivalent situation makes all the difference in the world to my life in Peru.  Finally, I have companions with whom I can commiserate in the frustrations and revel in the triumphs of becoming accustomed to a language, a culture, a place.  They are women I can relate to, who understand me. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The more we share about our Peru experiences, the more apparent it is that while I envy the ease in which they came to Cajamarca, they wish they had been forced to interact with more Peruvians.  Katie pointed out that her move here was almost too easy.  “Sometimes you need a little struggle to feel like you’ve accomplished something.”   Amy brought up the fact that since I’ve interacted mostly with Peruvians from the start and gradually picked up the Spanish language by using it, it’s easier for me to continue doing that.  In their case, they wouldn’t know where to start in order to break away from the ex-pat community and find Peruvian friends.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I’ll never forget my best friend’s dad, Jim Moir, nullifying my complaints about the cruelties the world seemed to inflict on me as a child by telling me “it builds character.”  As a 10-year-old with limited insight I wanted to tell him to screw off, but out of fear of losing the privilege to sleep over at Ariana’s house, I only glared at him and wrote off his input as that of a stupid grown-up.  In hindsight he may have had a point.  My first six months in Peru were a glorious struggle that at this point, only makes me more grateful for what a beautiful life I enjoy here now. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Although you rarely see them walking in the streets (most of them have cars), the ex-pat community thrives in Cajamarca, and I have become a part of it.  But I value my Peruvian friends equally.  I follow my walks with the girls with visits to the lavandaria to see Violeta, and parties in the street with our Peruvian neighbors.  It’s the best of both worlds.</span></p>
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		<title>To Be a Gringa: Part One</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Danielle L. Krautmann A local celebrity How did  it get to be this late?  I’m lying on Violeta’s bed in her one-room home in Baños del Inca.  Actually, it’s not just her bed, she shares this queen-sized mattress which sits on cinder blocks with her husband and 11-year-old daughter, Alejandra.  It’s four o’clock in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='wpfblike' style='height: 40px;'><fb:like href='http://gomadnomad.com/2011/03/02/to-be-a-gringa-part-one/' layout='default' show_faces='true' width='400' action='like' colorscheme='light' send='false' /></div><p><span style="color: #000000;">By Danielle L. Krautmann</span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #000000;">A local celebrity</span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">How did  it get to be this late?  I’m lying on Violeta’s bed in her one-room home in Baños del Inca.  Actually, it’s not just her bed, she shares this queen-sized mattress which sits on cinder blocks with her husband and 11-year-old daughter, Alejandra.  It’s four o’clock in the afternoon; I had planned to be home hours ago. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">&nbsp;</p>
<div id="attachment_2177" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_6802.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2177  " title="Violeta's House" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_6802-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Outside Violeta&#39;s house after lunch</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;">&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">When I agreed to go to church with Violeta, I assumed it would be your typical hour-long service&#8230;not three hours.  When I said I’d come for lunch afterwards, I thought we would slam down some sandwiches, and say chau.  Instead, we spent two hours preparing a feast and another hour eating it.  After lunch Violeta taught me how to prepare “fresh” limeade with tap water that spurted out of the faucet cloudy and yellow in color.  But how could I refuse to drink it after watching her cut and squeeze 10 limes all the while explaining to me that it is the most refreshing bebida you can consume after a big meal?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I gulp it down as fast as I can to show my appreciation (and to get it over with).  I’ll leave soon and either throw up or take an antibiotic, I assure myself to ease the nausea that is already setting in.  Violeta, seeing how much I enjoyed her refreshment, proudly refills my glass.  I try to politely refuse, “I should really get home to let Brandy out.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“You don’t have to go yet!  Stay!  Chat with me!  Just give me one more horita of your time.”  Violeta pleas.  And again, how can I refuse?  My new friend and her family have taken me under their wing, inviting me for large meals, taking me to church, and bringing me with them to weddings and other events as if I’m a member of the family.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">My new friend, Violeta, is a 42-year-old Peruvian woman who owns the only laundromat in Baños del Inca with her 52-year-old husband Alejandro.  She met her husband when she was 18 and they tried for 12 years to have children. Not until she was 30 did she realize that all she needed to do was pray and God would grant her one.  So came Alejandra or Lisbeth as we call her.  A plump, happy pre-teen who loves watching pirated DVD’s and can recite every line from Shrek and all four of its sequels. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">We have nothing in common.  She has a child, I don’t.  My first language is English, Violeta’s only language is Spanish.  She believes Jesus Christ is her savior while the only God I’ve even known is Pachamama.  My house has four bedrooms, her’s is the size of my bedroom.  Despite all this, we have somehow formed a close connection.  Three or four afternoons a week, I go and visit her at the laundromat, spending hours chatting, and sometimes helping her fold clothes (she fired me from ironing). </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</p>
<div id="attachment_2178" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_6864.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2178  " title="Danielle and Lisbeth" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/IMG_6864-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Lisbeth and I playing with my camera at a wedding.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I agree to stay for un momentito  and try hard to forget about the mud-water limeade I just consumed.  I’ll leave it up to my stomach to decide whether to begin the digestion process or send it back up.  As we prop ourselves up on the bed with pillows to chat, I feel like I’m at a slumber party.  Violeta explains that she doesn’t have a lot of friends and prefers it that way.  After dealing with people at the laundromat six days a week from 9am until 7pm she likes to spend her free time by herself. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“Well then, por que yo?” I ask her, wondering what makes me special enough to be taken in by this wonderful family. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“Porque eres gringa!  Duh!”  She proclaims, correctly utilizing the English word I taught her this afternoon.  She must notice the naive confusion in my face and begins to explain how fascinating the “gringo culture” is.  “Ever since I was a little girl, I watched you on TV.”  She refers to a show called “La familia Ingalls,” which I realize must be Little House on the Prairie.  From an early age, Violeta watched this show, dreaming that some day she would marry a gringo and move somewhere like Europe or the United States of America. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“And I watch American TV shows every night.  You’re culture is so impressive!”  She went on with wide eyes.  “You gringos are so sophisticated, so rich, so advanced.  Your houses are enormous and you look beautiful all the time with your make-up, nice clothes, perfect hair&#8230;”  As she goes on, I peek down at my outfit.  With a hat on my head to hide the fact I didn’t shower today, worn cargo pants, filthy bare feet, and a short sleeved t-shirt over a long sleeved one, I’m afraid I must be a terribly disappointing gringita. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I recall the last show I watched on TV.  After five minutes of My Super Sweet Sixteen, where privileged teenage brats scream at their parents about which convertible they will receive at their million dollar birthday party, I had to turn it off.  This is what impresses her?  The chunks are rising in my throat, but I’m uncertain if it’s due to the limeade or her words. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I try my hardest not to cringe as she continues, “I tell my Alejandra to study her English so that maybe, some day, she can marry a gringo, or at the very least, travel to another country.”  The Peruvian dream.  Really.  If the American dream is to work your way from rags to riches, the Peruvian dream is to marry a gringo and move to the States.  I can’t take any more of this.  I’m going to puke up two hours of cooking, and two glasses of limeade.  I need to get home, and fast. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“Thank you so much for today, it was wonderful.”  I tell her honestly.  I will visit her on Monday at the laundromat. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">What have we done to you people?  I think to myself as I run home.  I storm into the house, grab some Ciprofloxacin and a glass of water and plop down on my couch.  Feeling unsettled, I mull over a conversation I once had with a Peruvian friend of mine about Christmas.  “Why,” I asked “Do you Peruvians put plastic snowmen and fake tinsel pine trees everywhere for Christmas when it doesn’t snow in Peru and there are hardly any pine trees?” </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“You did this!” He exclaimed as if it was obvious.  Then, after seeing in my face what a blow he had just delivered, he softened his voice.  “Well, your country did&#8230;or the country you come from&#8230;”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Peruvians are laid back, have strong family values, beautiful folkloric music and bright colors.  It pains me to think that people from a country as culturally rich as Peru would want to be anything else.  They want to be like the “classy” gringos who start wars for money, who shake hands instead of kiss and love to be politically correct.  Ugh.  This realization pains me almost as much as the thought of Peruvians watching our TV shows and thinking that is what our lives are like. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am overcome by disappointment and guilt.  The fact of the matter is that I haven’t invited Violeta to my house because I once told her it was small.  After seeing that her and her husband share their bed with their daughter and their kitchen, dining room, living room, and bathroom all fit into a room the size of the one in which I sleep, how I can ever show her my four-bedroom home with TV, sofa, refrigerator, coffee pot, closets?  The fact of the matter is that I am gringa and the quality of my life is better than that of many of the Peruvians here in Cajamarca.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">And yet&#8230;I suppose I do the same thing.  I yearn for “the simple life.”  I admire the rich customs in Peru and want nothing more than to take part in them.  I’ve left my culture behind to immerse myself in another.  Who am I to judge?</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Either the antibiotics are kicking in, or my stomach chose digestion.  As I sit on my couch, reviewing this afternoon’s conversation in my head, I recount Violeta saying, “You know, we don’t see gringos here often, and when we do, we think ‘Wow! Look how nice they look!’  We want to listen to them speak their perfect English to be just like them.”  This is true.  When I go running in the countryside, people come out of their houses just to watch.  The other day a woman yelled “gringita, please wait.  I want to show you to my children!”  I kept running.  People honk their horns, follow me, and the brave ones greet me or try to speak the only English they know.   “Hello!”  they call.  “Gringita!” they yell and wave.  Children follow me and ask questions.  “What country are you from?” “What are you doing in Peru?” “Why is your dog on a leash?”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I hate this attention.  I want to say “didn’t your mother teach you it’s rude to stare?”  I usually try my hardest to scoot by as quickly as possible without making eye contact or reacting. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">But, aren’t I guilty of the same crime?  I watch when a campesino woman walks by with a heard of animals and marvel at how one person can control five sheep, three cows and two burrows at the same time.  I study their skirts and hats and wonder what their lives are like.  I gawk when they shamelessly whip out a breast in the middle of the street and massage it to squeeze the milk into their infant’s mouth.  They call me gringita, I call them the hat people.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I am a celebrity in the countryside only because few gringos pass through.  If a campesino walked into Concord, NH, hat on head, and baby in blanket on back, we would stare too.  Thank Pachamama we still have diversity.  People will continue to gaze at the weirdo gringa who walks her dog on a leash every morning; I can’t change this.  My only choice is to be the best weirdo-gringita I can be.  I can answer their questions, return their Hello’s, and every now and then wait, so the woman can show me to her kids.  Turns out, I’m representing a culture.  “The gringo culture.”</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Danielle L. Krautmann “Six months ago, I was living in Seattle with roommates, working as an occupational therapist for a home health company. Now, I am a housewife in Lima, Peru.” Can you believe that in January I celebrated my one-year anniversary of living in Peru?  This country and I have had a turbulent [...]]]></description>
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<p>“Six months ago, I was living in Seattle with roommates, working as an occupational therapist for a home health company. Now, I am a <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/01/15/arrival-in-peru/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">housewife in Lima, Peru</span></a>.”</p>
<p>Can you believe that in January I celebrated my one-year anniversary of living in Peru?  This country and I have had a turbulent relationship with many ups and downs.  I personify Peru and can’t count how many times I’ve found myself directly cursing it for its defects&#8230;and sometimes for my own.  I once forgot the keys to my apartment in a taxi and screamed “I hate you, Peru!” as the taxi quickly <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/03/04/on-culture-shock/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">drove away</span></a>.</p>
<div id="attachment_2134" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/jungle-peru-danielle.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2134  " title="jungle peru danielle" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/jungle-peru-danielle-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Danielle of the Jungle</p></div>
<p>Peru has long lines, every task is far more complicated than it needs to be, and the men can be terribly rude.  But I think, just maybe, the best relationships happen when you can love someone (or a country) deep enough to see past their faults.  I know I love Peru because when I reflect on my past year, its hard to remember what was difficult.  All I can think about is what I’ve gained.</p>
<h2>Alone but not lonely</h2>
<p>“All Alone.<br />
Whether you like it or not.<br />
Alone will be something<br />
you’ll be quite a lot.”<br />
~Dr. Suess</p>
<p>Upon arriving on January 4th, to my new apartment in Lima, Peru I had two hours with my husband before he left for four days to go work at the mine.  I found myself with a cell phone and no one to call.  As I paced around my sterile living room, I immediately understood what my new life would be like&#8230;lonely.  Charlie would be at the mine in Cajamarca most of the time and I would be in Lima, alone.  With no friends, afraid of everything outside the apartment, I decided to sit for four days and wait for him to come back.</p>
<div id="attachment_1657" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 425px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/IMG_5092.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-1657  " title="danielle in river peru" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/IMG_5092-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="415" height="553" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">One of my favorite places in the world.  The Rainforest.</p></div>
<p>I spent weeks walking around my block and eventually my whole neighborhood looking for friends and things to do.  I would run home in tears after being kissed at, followed and harassed by <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/01/20/los-hombres/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">men in the streets</span></a>.  I would sulk and stew inside the apartment over the loss of my family and friends, my career, my independence, and my former last name.  And for what?  To be sexually harassed, to watch TV, drink wine, cook, and be a housewife. How had I gotten here?</p>
<div id="attachment_2132" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/salkantay-pass-machu-picchu.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2132  " title="salkantay pass machu picchu" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/salkantay-pass-machu-picchu-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Hiking over the Salkantay pass en route to Machu Picchu.</p></div>
<p>I was so lonely.  I wanted to go home where I had friends, people to call on my cell phone, people who spoke English!  Charlie was working hard at the mine.  He was too busy during the day to chat and too exhausted at night.  During one heated discussion I told him, “When I agreed to move down here, I had no idea how much you would be away at the mine.  I’m alone all the time.  I hate this.”  His reply?  “You’re not alone.  You’ve got Brandy (our dog).  You can talk to her.”<br />
“She doesn’t speak English either!!!”  I screamed with frustration.  Poor Brandy, who was listening nearby, hung her head in shame.  I’m sure she understood.</p>
<p>At some point that first month I remembered something.  I had come to Peru with a goal of my own.  I was here to learn Spanish and it wasn’t going to happen on its own.  I joined a running group, started Spanish classes, and began talking to everyone I could.  I baked desserts for the guards in my apartment building for the sole purpose of initiating a conversation.  I would hand them a plate of cookies and if they replied “gracias” and I replied “de nada,” I felt successful.  I spoke to Brandy in Spanish.  I began wandering further and further from the apartment on foot and <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/22/transportation-in-lima/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">by bus</span></a>.  I got lost all the time, giving me perfect opportunity to ask for directions on how to get back.</p>
<div id="attachment_2129" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/2010-June-Paracas-Ica-166.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2129  " title="2010 June Paracas-Ica 166" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/2010-June-Paracas-Ica-166-1024x767.jpg" alt="Sand Dunes Huacachina Peru" width="553" height="414" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sand Dunes in Huacachina, Peru</p></div>
<p>Despite my slow accumulation of the language, friends, the <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/05/11/lima-42-k/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">ability to run long distances</span></a>, and a job tutoring English, I still found myself alone a lot.  The evenings were the worst.  I was by myself in the apartment at least five out of seven nights a week.  Rather than wallow, I began to fill the time.  I ruled out TV and drinking alone and replaced it with books, cooking, exploratory runs around Lima, and a job I loved in the rainforest.  I refused to <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/07/01/the-jungle-gig/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">get bored</span></a>.  Little by little, I began to enjoy my alone time.  As nice as it was to have Charlie around (of course this is what I would prefer), I minded less and less when he left for the mine.  I had a job, <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/02/a-little-help-from-my-friends/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">friends</span></a>, and a purpose here of my own.</p>
<div id="attachment_2130" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/2010-June-Paracas-Ica-230.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2130  " title="2010 June Paracas-Ica 230" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/2010-June-Paracas-Ica-230-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Visiting Huacachina during my parent&#39;s visit, Peru.</p></div>
<p>Marilyn Monroe said “I restore myself when I’m alone.” To be able to be alone, without TV, booze, a cell phone, or other distractions is nothing but an opportunity.  In fact, I now find myself craving solitude and taking pleasure in it.  Peru has taught me that alone is not lonely.</p>
<h2><strong>On learning Spanish&#8230;</strong></h2>
<p>Learning Spanish continues to be <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/03/15/coming-out-of-a-fog/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">a humbling experience</span></a> I would never give up for instant fluency. I still furrow my brow when trying to understand, botch verb formations and tenses when I speak and have yet to master the sexy rolled “r”&#8230;maybe I never will.  But at this point, I can understand most of what people say to me and can express just about everything I want to&#8230;sometimes it just takes a while.</p>
<div id="attachment_2128" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/peru-pantone.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2128  " title="peru pantone" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/peru-pantone-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Celebrating our first Peruvian Easter with a Paneton.</p></div>
<p>Recently, I went searching in Cajamarca for a curtain rod for the shower in the apartment.  When I arrived to the ferreteria (hardware store) I realized I didn’t even know how to say curtain in Spanish.  I figured I could improvise.  I approached the sales clerk and began, “Estoy buscando algo para mi ducha, pero no se como se llama en Espanol.”  (I am looking for something for my shower, but I don’t know what you call it in Spanish).  If this hardware store was anything like a grocery store, pharmacy, or anywhere else I have played the guess-what-I’m-talking-about game, the clerk would begin guessing until he got it right.  I would then jump for joy as he showed me the adjustable curtain rod.  Instead he stood silently looking and me waiting for more.  “Well&#8230;”  I continued, “No quiero agua en mi piso.”  I don’t want water on my floor.  “Ah!   He said!  “Cortina!”  Okay, it was a start.  Now that I knew how to say curtain, I could surely get to “curtain rod”, and from there, “adjustable curtain rod.”</p>
<div id="attachment_2135" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/cajamarca-bersa.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2135  " title="cajamarca bersa" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/cajamarca-bersa-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">In Cajamarca with my new English student, Bersa.</p></div>
<p>“No,” I explained, I was not looking for a curtain, but it was “a thing to put the curtain on”.<br />
He engaged in the tango that I have become quite familiar with.<br />
“Window?”<br />
“No, it goes in the bathroom.”<br />
“shower?”<br />
“No, its for the curtain that goes in the shower.”<br />
“towel?”<br />
“No.  Something for the curtain that is long and made from metal or plastic.  It holds the curtain.”<br />
“Cortinero?”<br />
“Si!  Si!   Si!” I exclaimed jumping up and down.  I was overjoyed to have figured out the word and could have kissed him.  While this particular ferreteria didn’t happen to carry cortineros, there were about <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/11/21/when-youre-strange-adjusting-to-life-in-a-new-town/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">8 more on the same block</span></a>.  I left the store and bought a coke to prepare for step two of my mission: the purchase.</p>
<div id="attachment_2133" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 425px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/peru-sunat-papers.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2133  " title="peru sunat papers" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/peru-sunat-papers-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="415" height="553" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">FINALLY getting my work papers at SUNAT (after many trips there).</p></div>
<p>The next three hardware stores carried curtain rods, but not the adjustable kind.  I wandered down the block slowly examining the clerk in each store until I found a friendly and patient looking female whom I was sure would help me.  Her name was Violetta, and I was convinced that a chick working in a hardware store would be compassionate with my situation.<br />
“I am looking for a cortinero&#8230;”  I started&#8230;<br />
“Ah!  Cortinero!”  She replied and went on to show me three different models (all the type you need to install).  “The thing is,”  I explained, “I need a cortinero that has a size you can change&#8230;”  She tried to understand me, listening and watching patiently (along with everyone else in the store) as I used my arms and body to try to lead her to the word “adjustable”.  “Ah!” she said finally, “cortinero a pression!”<br />
“Si!” I hugged her, I couldn’t help it.  While ferreterias generally don’t carry cortineros a pression, my new BFF, Violetta, wrote the words for me on a piece of paper and gave me directions to a block filled with shops that fabricated curtains.  After asking in four of them, I found my cortinero a pression, and after that morning, I will never ever forget how to say ‘adjustable curtain rod’ in Spanish.</p>
<p>Learning the language has been humbling and rewarding.  My confidence increases with every conversation.  Fortunately I love to talk and practice makes perfect, right?</p>
<div id="attachment_1422" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_8487.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-1422  " title="marathon finish" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IMG_8487-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I&#39;m sprinting across the finish line in Lima Marathon!</p></div>
<h2><strong>A new career?</strong></h2>
<p>The most difficult part of moving to Peru was leaving behind a career I loved and was good at.  Occupational Therapy does not exist here the same way it does in the States.  The job market barely exists, the income is minimal, the patients are not the same, in fact, most people don’t even know what an OT is.  Perhaps one day, when I am completely adjusted to Peru, I will start my own private practice here.  Probably not.</p>
<p>I tried teaching English, and it was nice to find work, but it didn’t satisfy me the way rehabilitating a brain injured patient did.  Gaining the trust of a privileged Peruvian child was nothing compared to gaining the trust of a rebellious twenty year old who wanted to party but couldn’t because she was dying from cancer&#8230;or gaining the trust of a person suffering Schizophrenia&#8230;or a woman with 70 years on me.  My English-teaching job was too easy.</p>
<div id="attachment_2131" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/horseback-colca-canyon.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2131  " title="horseback colca canyon" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/horseback-colca-canyon-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Horseback Riding in the Colca Canyon, Peru</p></div>
<p>Things turned when I found <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/07/12/the-rainforest-of-tambopata-national-reserve-peru/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Rainforest</span></a> Expeditions and agreed to spend a month in the jungle of southern Peru gathering content for their Facebook page.  I breathed the air of Tambopata and felt immediately restored from the pain of <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/02/04/getting-out-of-the-city/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">living in the city</span></a>.  I began to learn about marketing (I am still learning), about ecotourism, and about birds and mammals I never knew existed.  I am no longer holding the fate of vulnerable sick patients in my hands.  I am vulnerable, attempting to do something I didn’t study for six years, trying to speak in Spanish with my co-workers and fit in with an all-Peruvian staff who refer to me as “the gringa.”</p>
<h2>A different culture</h2>
<p>Things are different here.  Even after a year, I struggle to understand certain features of Peruvian culture.  But I’ve learned that I don’t get far by focusing on what’s different.  I can be an ex-pat or a resident.  I choose resident.</p>
<p>Why not focus on what I love about Peru?  Everyone here drives like I used to in the States and they aren’t considered bad drivers.  Being late to meetings and parties is accepted&#8230;almost encouraged.  Everything is negotiable.  The language is beautiful.  The people are warm, welcoming, and kind.  The terrain is incredible.  From high peaks, to mountain valleys, desert oasis, to my favorite: the rainforest. Peru is a country with never ending possibilities for exploration.  Oh yeah, and the parties rock.</p>
<p>A year ago, I found myself a lonely housewife in Lima, Peru.  Now I’m a marathon runner, a friend, an explorer, a teacher, a gringa, a social media marketing manager, a writer and a cook.  I shop at the mercado, <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/02/02/kissing-in-peru/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">kiss everyone I greet</span></a>, play volleyball in the street with the neighbors, and take combies to town. I cook Lomo Saltado, Causa Rellena, Chifa, Pachamanca and Anticuchos.  I can speak Spanish, <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/02/05/death-in-the-chicken-coop/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">buy live chickens</span></a>, make a Pisco Sour and walk in high heals.</p>
<p>Despite our many struggles, I want to thank you, Peru, for an amazing first year together.  I look forward to (hopefully) many to come.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Georgian culture is completely inseparable from their orthodox Christianity.  The land and people have been Christian since the 4th century.  People walking past a Georgian church stop, face the church, and cross themselves before continuing on their way.  The interior of the churches are dim with painted icons of saints and the holy family on the [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Georgian culture is completely inseparable from their orthodox Christianity.  The land and people have been Christian since the 4th century.  People walking past a Georgian church stop, face the church, and cross themselves before continuing on their way.  The interior of the churches are dim with painted icons of saints and the holy family on the walls.  Devotees kiss the icon and then dip their forehead to lightly touch the object as they pray.  This is also done on the outside of the church&#8217;s gates and the interior corners of the building.  Services are marked by chanting prayers and ethereal singing by the priest and select groups of worshippers.  The Byzantine faces of the art, the candles, and the devotion of the people make the churches much more than a tourist attraction.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Danielle L. Krautmann The problem began when I was living in Denver, CO and a squirrel got caught in my window well.  Brandy watched patiently as I spent three hours using different methods (a bucket, a broom, an umbrella, a shovel) to try to set the frightened creature free.  My final attempt was with [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">The problem began when I was living in Denver, CO and a squirrel got caught in my window well.  Brandy watched patiently as I spent three hours using different methods (a bucket, a broom, an umbrella, a shovel) to try to set the frightened creature free.  My final attempt was with a towel, which the squirrel was happy to burrow in when I dropped it into the well.  I quickly pulled the towel out (squirrel inside) and opened it on the grass, allowing the squirrel to run free.   To my surprise, in less than a second, before he could even get his bearings, Brandy had pounced, captured and shaken my poor friend to his death.  “Noooooooo!” I screamed with defeat.  A morning was wasted and I had just seen a side of my dog I never wanted to encounter again.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2099" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6730.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2099  " title="chickens peru danielle" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6730-1024x767.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="414" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Negra y Blanca</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In Las Cruces, NM, there was an abundance of adorable cotton-tailed rabbits.  When I first moved in and began to explore the area around my apartment, I noticed Brandy’s interest in the cute little creatures.  She would try to chase them, but I figured there was no way a large clumsy dog barreling through the grass could catch a speedy rabbit.  Over time she learned to approach slowly while they were eating and wait for them to startle before chasing them.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">One day I let Brandy outside, leaving the door cracked so she could return on her own accord.  Five minutes later the door swung open quickly, slamming against the wall.  I screamed when I saw Brandy proudly grasping a bloody, still living rabbit in her teeth.  Frustrated with its struggling, she shook it back and forth until it was limp.  Satisfied, she dropped it on the floor and headed back outside, leaving my apartment looking like a bloody murder scene.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In Lima, it was the pigeons.  One day, <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/01/18/settling-in/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">my maid</span></a> Gloria took Brandy out to the park to play only to be pulled the the ground when Brandy lunged after a pigeon.  The fall landed her on her chest with a thud, knocking the wind out of her.  Brandy proceeded to capture and eat the pigeon.  That was only the beggining.  Despite our efforts to manage her, Brandy became quite successful at controlling the pigeon population in San Isidro.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2098" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6780.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2098  " title="IMG_6780" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6780-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">She looks innocent enough.  You would be suprised.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">So you can imagine my concern when we moved to my dream home in <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/01/25/my-life-in-banos-del-inca-cajamarca-peru/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Baños del Inca</span></a> and I noticed a caged area housing five chickens and a rooster.  A tree inside the coop allows the chickens to climb up and escape to explore the area, conveniently, right outside my front door.  The first time I let Brandy out to go to the bathroom, she discovered her new pastime.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I’m not sure who made more noise, the terrified chicken running from Brandy, or Brandy’s infuriated owner screaming “treat” to try to distract her (as if a dry biscuit could replace the thrill of catching a live animal).  When my dog closed her teeth around the tail feathers of the bird, I was able to tackle her setting her victim free.  Brandy, with feathers still sticking out of her teeth struggled underneath me, but I won and dragged her back to the house.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I resolved to get a long rope that would allow Brandy plenty of freedom to explore, but prevent her from chasing our feathered friends.  Olga and Walter protested.  “Animals should be free,” my liberal neighbors insisted.  “She just needs to become accustomed to the chickens.  She just wants to chase them, but she wont catch them.”  Within a week, Brandy had captured and killed two.  Olga and Walter, they were completely relaxed, as always.  “No problem,” Olga told me, “they were small female chickens that shouldn’t cost more than 10 or 15 soles.  You can buy them at the market.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“Okay,” I replied, with the most casual face I could muster.  “I’ll just go to the market and buy two live chickens to replace them.  Do you mind if I wait until Monday?”  “Claro.” replied Olga.  Of course this was no problem.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I returned to my house and looked at Brandy, my dear dog who I love more than anyone in the world.  My darling dog who I now wanted to murder with my bare hands.  Instead, I decided to deprive her of food and affection until my anger subsided.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2100" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6727.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2100  " title="chickens cajamarca" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6727-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The chickens traveling home from the market.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I had seen people walking around <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/29/why-i-love-cajamarca/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Cajamarca</span> </a>with live chickens under their arm but never thought it would be me.  How the heck would I get two live chickens from Cajamarca to my house in <span style="color: #000000;">Ba<a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/01/25/my-life-in-banos-del-inca-cajamarca-peru/"><span style="color: #000000;">ñ</span></a>os</span>?  I walked down to the corner store to consult with my new friend Marta who explained that buying a chicken was easy.  She offered to accompany me to the market as she needed to pick up some things herself.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Monday rolled around and I met Marta outside her shop at 6:30 AM.  As we approached the entrance to the market, I noticed men lining the street, each with a large black bag.  Some were filled with live ducks, stuffed in on top of each other in an agonizing tangle, others had roosters, some had guinea pigs (a common dish here) squeaking for help, and to my delight some were crammed with live chickens.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">We thought it best to buy the chickens last and made our way into the market.  The street was filled with vendors who had set up their stations by laying a worn blanket, towel, or bag on the ground and piled fruits and vegetables on top.  Some had enormous sacks, filled to the brim with potatoes, each sack holding a different variety (remember, Peru is known for its variety and abundance of potatoes).</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">While infamous for being unsafe, “el mercado” is by far my new favorite place in <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/29/why-i-love-cajamarca/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Cajamarca</span></a>.  Smells of fresh mangos make me drool while a second later the stench of raw fish make me fear I might vomit.  Brilliant colors of ripe fruit and veggies energize me.  I feel intimate with strangers as their whole bodies brush against me to get past me in the crowded streets.  I actually enjoy the lack of respect for personal space here in Peru.  It makes me feel like I’m at a Parker family reunion.  A trip to the market is a sensory experience I’m sure can never be replicated.  I danced my way through the streets with Marta purchasing a weeks worth of fruits, veggies and spices for less than $5 US dollars and when we were finished, I knew what it was time to do.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I followed Marta to the chicken vendors, trying to look as cool and casual about the whole situation as possible.  We told a vendor we were looking for small, female chickens to replace Brandy’s victims.  He dug through his bag pulling out chicken number one and plopped it into my arms.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">This poor brown creature, resting calmly in the cradle I had formed in my arms, seemed a little big.  The man continued to dig through his sack to give me options.  He pulled out possible candidates, handing them to me one after another.  I was struggling to manage four live chickens in my arms and couldn’t imagine where I would put the next one.  I chose a black one and white one and quickly negotiated a discount for buying two.  I handed the vendor my money and walked away with two bags of produce and two beautiful clucking chickens!</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I couldn’t help but giggle as Marta and I boarded the <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/22/transportation-in-lima/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">combi</span></a>, me with my two live chickens.  No one else in the crowded vehicle even flinched!  By the time we reached <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2011/01/25/my-life-in-banos-del-inca-cajamarca-peru/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Baños del Inca</span></a>, I had named these tame creatures Negra and Blanca.  I parted with Marta at her store and hiked up the road to my house, thrilled to show Olga and Walter what I had accomplished.  Of course, I had to act natural, because to the people of this area, buying a live chicken is as common as buying a Coke.  After untying the feet and dropping the chickens into the coop I ran to get Walter, who inspected them carefully and told me they were really nice chickens.  I had done a good job.  I almost tackled him with thrill, but instead kept composed, apologized again for my dog’s bad habit and accepted a pat on the back.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Danielle L. Krautmann One month ago, I moved to Baños del Inca, a very small town only 6 km from the “city” of Cajamarca.  My first two weeks were filled with holidays: an amazing Christmas visit with my family and a strange illness that rendered me useless for about ten days.  Finally, I feel [...]]]></description>
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<div><span style="color: #000000;"><br id="internal-source-marker_0.7213302392046899" />One month ago, I <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/11/21/when-youre-strange-adjusting-to-life-in-a-new-town/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">moved to Baños del Inca</span></a>, a very small town only 6 km from the <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/29/why-i-love-cajamarca/">“<span style="color: #0000ff;">city” of Cajamarca</span></a>.  My first two weeks were filled with holidays: an amazing Christmas visit with my family and a strange illness that rendered me useless for about ten days.  Finally, I feel like I’m beginning to settle in and learn the lay of the land.  My thoughts so far?  I love it here.</span></div>
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<div id="attachment_2077" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 608px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/banos-del-inca-landscape.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2077     " title="banos del inca landscape" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/banos-del-inca-landscape-1024x768.jpg" alt="landscape Banos del Inca cajamarca peru" width="598" height="448" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Typical landscape outside of Banos del Inca.</p></div>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Cajamarca is a small city in northern Peru that sits in a valley surrounded by mountains.    Due to a recent mining boom, many Cajamarqueñians say the city is growing faster than its old colonial structure can handle.  Yanacocha, the second largest gold mine in the world is located less than an hour from the city.  To date the Yanacocha mine (not where Charlie works) has produced more than $7 billion worth of gold.  A strong mining presence is felt as you wind your way through the streets of Cajamarca and notice a large population of trucks and stores that sell work boots, safety glasses, and hard hats.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Despite Cajamarca and Baños del Inca playing a significant role in Peru’s history (more on this later), the area does not attract much international tourism.  Small, local tour companies offer van trips to nearby ruins, waterfalls, and other incredible features, but these target mostly Peruvians.    This is just fine with me, the tourists can stay away (unless you’re coming to visit me and stay in my house, in which case you’re more than welcome, I love hosting).  I have found that in Peru, tourism brings opportunists who recognize that people who can afford to travel have money in their pockets.  This puts any gringo at a much higher risk of pick-pocketing, harassment and scams.  In Cajamarca, this occurs on a small scale (as it does anywhere in the world), but I feel far less targeted than other places I’ve been in Peru.  I’m sure its only a matter of time until the locals catch on, but for now, the area is free from that burden and filled with its own unique culture.</span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #000000;">The History</span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">If you want an in-depth understanding of the history of Cajamarca and Baños del Inca read a book.  I’ll tell you my version with no promises of accuracy or political correctness.  Here goes.   A long time ago there was this wicked tall Inca named Atahualpa (let’s call him “Hap” to make things easier).  He was the leader of the northern Incas (his brother took care of the Cusco region).  Anyway, Hap and his homies were hanging out in Baños del Inca when they heard that Francisco Pissaro and the Spanish (the conquistadors or conquerors) had reached Cajamarca.  He headed over to Cajamarca with 6000 of his guys.  Some Spanish priest tried to convert him to Christianity, he said “screw you” and threw the bible on the ground.  This started the inevitable fight between the Spanish and the Incas.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2073" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 425px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6634.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2073  " title="Atahualpa cajamarca peru" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/IMG_6634-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="415" height="553" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Outside the Cuarto Rescate (where Atahualpa was held hostage for a year).  I am raising my hand as Atahualpa does in the statues to mark the spot to where he would fill the room with gold.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The problem for Atahualpa was that the Spanish had cannons and men on horses with swords and the Inca’s had nothing but slingshots and axes (how embarrassing).  Within a few hours 160 Spaniards killed 7000 indigenous people and captured our friend Hap.  Seriously, 160 dudes killed 7000!  I am not exaggerating!  When Hap figured out how gold hungry the Spaniards were, he held his hand up above his head and said “I will fill this room this high with gold if you let me go.”  “Cool,” agreed the Spanish.  After a year of gathering Incan artifacts from as far south as Cusco (which they melted down to make pure gold), the room was filled.  Unfortunately, the Spanish heard a rumor that Hap’s buddies were coming to help him.  They freaked out and killed him anyway.  Jerks.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The only Inca building that’s still standing in Cajamarca is the Cuarto del Rescate where Hap was held prisoner.  I visited it last week and honestly, it doesn’t look all that bad compared to how I would imagine a prison cell.  Hap’s presence is still felt throughout both Baños del Inca and Cajamarca, mostly because there are statues of him everywhere with his hand raised up high marking the spot to which he would fill that room with gold.</span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #000000;">The Hat People</span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I have got to stop calling them that.  A Campesino is a person from the countryside.  They look, dress, and live very differently from the city folk.  The stocky women wear wool, knee-length skirts with petticoats underneath to reveal calves with tone I can only dream of achieving.  They sport three or more layered sweaters, with their hair tied back in a long black braid, topped off with what looks like a straw top hat made from woven palm leaves.  They often have either cows, donkeys, or sheep in tow.  Tied diagonally around their bodies is often a piece of patterned, bright colored cloth used to carry their baby, a sack of potatoes or something else really heavy.   Their attire makes me feel like I’ve traveled back in time 100 years or more (because I bet they were wearing the same get-up back then).</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2072" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 342px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/monkey-fortune.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2072   " title="monkey fortune" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/monkey-fortune-768x1024.jpg" alt="monkey fortune cajamarca peru" width="332" height="442" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">In the street market, not only can you buy t-shirts for a dollar, there is a monkey who will choose your fortune from a drawer and hand it to you for one Peruvian Sol.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I can’t help but wonder why they dress like this.  Are there practical reasons to wearing a skirt and 5 sweaters?  Or is it just a tradition that hasn’t been updated?  Hmm, maybe people puzzle over the same thing when they travel to Salisbury, NH and see everyone (most of whom are related to me) wearing flannel shirts, work boots, and neon orange hats (so hunters don’t mistake them for moose and shoot them).</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">It has not yet ceased to amaze me how comfortably the hat people, I mean campesinos blend in with the city folk.  While I can’t help but watch (or stare with my mouth open) in amazement at how much they can carry on their backs, the Cajamarqueñians don’t glance twice.  In fact, I get far more stares walking down the street than any Campesino.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The other day while I was doing errands, I heard a little boy say to his mom “Look!  Look!  Look!” while pointing at me.  “Yes,” the mom assured her son, “that’s a gringa.”  I smiled, blushed and pulled the hood of my sweatshirt over my blond hair as I walked away.  Supposedly, due to all the mining in the area, a slew of gringos live in Cajamarca and Baños del Inca.  If this is true, I don’t know where they’re all hiding.  I have run and walked extensively around the two towns and can tell you that they are not shopping in the mercado, eating in local restaurants, drinking soda in the Plaza de Armas, or running the footpath between Baños and Cajamarca.</span></p>
<h2><span style="color: #000000;">Running</span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I would like to think, that I am enough of a “runner” so that on any given day, if I needed to run ten miles, I could.  This was true until I moved to a town that sits at 9000 feet (2730 meters) above sea level.  The first time I went running here, I noticed the altitude immediately but fought for my breath for 30 minutes.   My stupid legs would NOT move, no matter how hard I pushed them.  I got back and quickly jumped on google earth to map my run and find I had gone less than 3 miles.  Impossible!  I thought to myself.  I can walk faster than that!  Training at this altitude has been an experience but a nice challenge and at this point, my body is finally adjusting.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2076" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/peru-potato-field.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2076  " title="peru potato field" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/peru-potato-field-1024x768.jpg" alt="peru potato field cajamarca peru" width="553" height="415" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Some men working in the potato field near our house.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Surprisingly there are a lot of runners here.   I see them on the 6 km footpath that runs along the road between Baños del Inca and Cajamarca.  Runners of all ages, some more serious than others fill the path each morning.  Being such a friendly town, people greet me along the way.  I never feel as if I’m running alone, rather am part of a community of runners.  I have even heard rumor of a half-<span style="color: #0000ff;">marathon</span> in May.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Despite all the athletes in Cajamarca, I doubt I will find an equivalent to <a href="http://gomadnomad.com/2010/04/02/a-little-help-from-my-friends/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">my dear friend</span></a> Gabriella in Lima, who was willing to meet me in the dark at 5AM for a 15-mile run or an hour-long stair and sprint workout.  Gaby, my partner in fitness who would gossip, discuss important celebrity news, and scream along to Ace of Base with me to distract ourselves from the pain.  Gaby, my partner in masochism, who no matter how bad we felt from sit-ups and lunges would declare “one more time” just when I thought we were finished.  Gaby, my partner in debauchery, who would meet me the same night to soften the muscle pain with Pisco Sours.  A friend like that is hard to come by.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Speaking of Friends</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Of course, my main concern from the second I arrived to Baños del Inca has been making friends.  The problem is, very few people here speak English, and believe it or not, due to my insecurities about my vocabulary and accent, I can be quite shy in Spanish.  I figured the best place to start, was close to home.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Home. Have you ever read the book, ‘The Secret Garden?  Well, I live in a secret garden with two other couples.  From the street it looks like nothing more than a garage door.  Open it to reveal a long grass driveway lined with flower bushes that host a number of large turquoise humming birds.  Curvy stone pathways wind their way through rose bushes, clusters of corn, strawberry patches, and herb gardens.  Finally you will arrive in a small courtyard with a large stone grill and a fountain in the middle, which the owners call the “Plaza de Armas.”  Within the large “garden” there are four buildings, a large fenced-in area for the chickens and rooster, and six dogs (if you include Brandy).  The building we live in is simple (the bottom floor of the owner’s home), with white walls, brick floors, and tons of windows.</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2075" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 425px"><a href="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/bersa-ballon-party.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2075  " title="bersa ballon party" src="http://gomadnomad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/bersa-ballon-party-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="415" height="553" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This is Bersa, the neighbor who I&#39;m teaching English.  She&#39;s blowing up a balloon at her birthday party.</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Olga and Walter, the owners, live above us.  They are a middle-aged Peruvian hippie couple that spend their days tending to the gardens and working on the property.  They have a communal kitchen and sitting area that I visit a few times a week to drink tea that Walter makes from the herbs grown here.  Olga is bubbly, social and loves to throw big parties (two so far).  The third couple, a Canadian guy and Chilean girl, are closer to our age and speak English, but we have yet to get to know them well.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">I have one more part-time neighbor, a young campesino girl named Bersa.  Her parents live three hours from town and with her being the youngest of at least ten kids, they were unable to take care of her.  They sent her to live down the street from us with her very frail grandparents.  Unfortunately, her grandparents don’t attend to her much so she spends most of her days here, helping Olga with projects around the house.  She visits me daily, to drop off fresh-picked strawberries, tomatoes, or herbs from the garden.  In exchange, I am teaching her English.  One word a day which I write on a notecard for her to practice.  She’s a fast learner.  Yesterday she greeted my dog Brandy by saying “Hello.  My name is Bersa.”  Brandy looked at her and replied, “Hello.  My name is Brandy.”  Just kidding, Brandy doesn’t speak.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">At the end of the street is a small store that sells your basics: soda, chips, toilet paper, milk, etc.  I noticed as soon as I moved here that people tend to congregate there to hang out.  It reminds me of the store my grandfather and his brother owned in Concord, NH called “Phil and Larry’s.”  People would come in for a candy bar and stay for an hour to chat.  I can do this, I thought to myself. So I went to the store, bought a coke from Marta and sat down to chat.  I learned that she owns the shop with her sister (exactly like Phil and Larry’s!).  She had seen me go running by in the morning and told me she goes swimming three times a week in the public pool.  Since that afternoon, Marta does not allow me to pass by the store without a friendly greeting and kiss on the cheek (even when I pass by 6 times a day).</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Violeta from the laudramat is equally friendly.  She looked confused the first day I walked in, sweating, my hiking backpack filled with clothes.  I explained to her that I had to carry them about a mile from my house to get there.  She asked why I didn’t take a taxi and I replied “everybody else around here carries things on their back, isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?”  We got to chatting that day, and now I need to plan at least an hour each time I go to drop off or pick up clothes.  She loves to cook, as do I, and she has been giving me recipes for local dishes.  Next week I’m going to her house for a cook out.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">While, at this point, I don’t have enough friends to throw a party, I’m getting there.  “Poco a poco,” like everything here in Peru.  Nonetheless, I’m out of the city.  The sounds of traffic and construction are nothing but a distant memory.  They’ve been replaced by a plethora of bird calls, dogs barking and a rooster that calls at all hours of the day and night.  The mountains, the Eucalyptus trees, the fresh air, the friendly people; for the first time since I moved to Peru, I feel like I’m in my element.</span></p>
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